Mistress Katalina - Professional Dominatrix

Well for all you good boy and girls santa seems to come early for you this year Matell are about to release a new line of Barbies…oh and I bet you are going to want one….

“What can I possibly say about the “Fetish” Barbie scheduled to spank – uh, hit – store shelves this autumn? Only that it’s about time. And I have to have one. There’s a whole cadre of people who have never liked the anatomically impossible doll’s squeaky-clean image; some of us even suspected there was a kinky woman inside. Now she’s becoming the straight man’s/lesbian version of Tom’s of Finland; the one-time ideal of feminine perfection is all but wielding a whip. Oh right. She already did that dressed as Catwoman Barbie .”

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Dont get too excited…”The Corporate Dominatrix” is not related to actual BDSM or kink…it is the latest book for woman to inspire them to get to the top in the corporate world by adopting the Dominatrix approach…Why not have a read you may learn something…

“A Corporate Dominatrix dominates without being domineering and is submissive to authority (when necessary) without being subservient. She stands up for her rights in an open and straightforward way, and she is confident enough to intuit what her clients or colleagues want and she responds accordingly.”

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Over the last few months I have come across a few clients who dont understand what you mean when you ask them there limits…some say that they have no limits and that they will take anything a Mistress wishes to give out..well for all those that think or say this a word of warning…make your needs clear to a Dominant otherwise you will find that you will not have the full enjoyment out of a session…also you may be one of those unlucky people who comes across a Mistress or Master who does not really care about your needs (yes there are people out there that abuse the trust of a submissive…)

Mistress Katalina advises all those new and old to the world of BDSM to be clear with what you wish to explore and what you dont..I myself have limits as a Professional Dominatrix and I abide by them no matter how large a tribute I am offered….

Below is an extract from Peter Masters who gives an explanation on limits and the difference between hard and soft ones… 

Soft” limits are limits, to do with your BDSM activities, which are
possibly variable. They might be variable according to your mood, the
partner you’re with, and so on. They might also be limits that you’d
simply like “pushed” a little.

“Hard” limits are those which may not be exceeded. They might be real
physical limits or psychological/emotional limits, but in either case
transgressing them will cause you harm.

Whether you’re a dominant or a submissive it’s very important you
communicate all you know about your limits to your partner. Don’t just
tell them what the limits are; also tell them why you have those limits
so that your partner has the best possibility of understanding.

Make sure also that you talk about limits that you might think you
have but are not sure about because they’ve never been tested.

Even the famous need time out…and their control taken away…In a recent Uk paper Max Mosley admitted to been into the BDSM scene… 

Motor racing chief Max Mosley yesterday admitted being a lover of S&M and corporal punishment.

Mosley, the son of 1930s fascist leader Sir Oswald Mosley, told a court he had kept it secret from his wife for 45 years.

He admitted using the services of professional dominatrixes - and on one occasion being hit with a cane until he bled.

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Mistress Katalina will be relocating to Melbourne in the next couple of months (Sept)…She will be conducting her sessions from The Dominas Realm…

If you would like to book a session with her you may contact her at mistress@mistresskatalina.com with your request…

For all those in Queensland and New South Wales Mistress Katalina will still be travelling so dont worry you wont miss out….if you have a fetish request then email her…

Please rememeber Mistress Katalina will answer all genuine enquiries so please do not waste her time by asking for personal services….

Dominance and submission, and the inner conflict and surrender connected with these are enduring themes in human culture and civilization. Human beings share with many other mammals the instinct to look up to certain individuals who become leaders through strength of will and personality, to lead or follow, and to submit or dominate. In human sexuality this has broadened to include mutual exploration of roles, emotions and activities which would be difficult or impossible to do without a willing partner taking an opposing role.

While D/s deals with representations of brutality and cruelty, and the emotional responses to them, adherents are quick to point out that D/s is not about actual acts of brutality and cruelty. It is a consensual power exchange between the two partners and need not involve any brutality (such as corporal punishment) or cruelty (verbal or emotional abuse) at all. It is primarily based upon trust and communication between the partners. It is also based on a deep ethos of mutual respect in which exploration of the emotions brought up by brutality and cruelty can take place in a safe, sane and consensual manner.

A safe word is given to the submissive partner to prevent the dominant from overstepping physical and emotional boundaries. The safe word is especially important when engaging in verbal humiliation or playing ‘mind-games’ because the submissive may not be aware of an emotional boundary until it is crossed. If an emotional boundary is breached and the safe word called, the dominant should cease all play immediately and discuss the emotional breach with the submissive in a tender and understanding manner.

D/s may be ritualised or freeform. It is usually a negotiated lifestyle, with people discussing their wishes, limits and needs in order to find commonality. A D/s relationship may be sexual or non-sexual, long or short term, and intimate or anonymous. Most adherents search for the essential intensity, trust and intimacy that are required to make any deep relationship possible.

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not long to go before my little pet visits me at my home…so today I decided to go shopping it is always worth going into those two dollar shops I find so much cheaper than bunnings or the major hardware stores…and guess what I cam across some nice red clamps…oh yes I know that they are supposed to hold bits of wood or metal so you can cut them…but I much perfer the idea of plaing them around some nice tender balls and twisting the screws tighter and tighter…

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he was such a silly boy….Mistress was been nice to her little toy last night and yet he decieded to taunt her and not accept her kindness…Now he is suffering..trapped in his cage wrists and ankles restrained to the bars gagged with no escape…poor baby when will he learn not to fuck with his Mistress..

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A woman of dominance with a wicked plan
An evil trap set to kidnap a man
Drugged at her mercy he wakes up trapped
In chains blindfolded and gagged
With no memory of his name
She tortures him sexually with sweet kisses and tease
Soon at her mercy he is begging you please
The perfect kidnapping your trap complete
Soon you will own him and he will serve at your feet

There is nothing more sensual and erotic than been bound helplessly in tight ropes…been made to feel completly vunerable and at the mercy of your Mistress…

Mistress Katalina has had a passion for rope bondage and other forms of bondage for many years and loves seeing her toys struggle with no hope of escape…

Imagine been bound with your arms behind your back and your knees bend up so as you are lying face down, completely exposed mmm the feeling of not been able to control what is about to happen to you…Mistress loves to tease and torment her submissives in this way…

Want to know more about rope bondage then why not read some of these how to books…

Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé by Lee, “Bridgett” Harrington

Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman

Rope Bondage: Precision and Persuasion with Rope (SMTech Educational) by Scott Smith

all these titles are available through amazon online bookstore…

or Even better why not book a session with Mistress Katalina and experience the sensation of soft tight ropes against your naked flesh…while been erotically teased and played with mentally…

you can contact Mistress Katalina by email mistress@mistresskatalina.com or phone between the hours of 10am and 10pm on 0413 077483..

NB personal services are no offered so please do not waste my time in asking for them…

Erotic sensation play is a class of activities meant to impart physical sensations upon a partner, as opposed to mental forms of erotic play such as power exchange or sexual roleplaying.

Sensation play can be sensual, where the sensations are generally pleasing and light. Many couples that would not consider themselves active in BDSM are familiar with this kind of play: the use of silk scarves, feathers, ice, massage oils, and other similar implements.

Sensation play in BDSM can also involve sadomasochistic play, involving the application of carefully controlled stimuli to the human body so that it reacts as if it were actually hurt. While this can involve the infliction of actual pain, it is usually done in order to release pleasurable endorphins, creating a sensation somewhat like runner’s high or the afterglow of orgasm, sometimes called “flying” or “body stress”.

Mistress Katalina enjoys using stimulis such as violet wands, tens units and of course the good old favourites feathers, ice and hot wax..Having a submissive bound in restrictive bondage and even blindfolded adds to the intensity of this type of session and Mistress loves nothing more than to see her submissives reactions to the play..

Mistress Katalina does advise careful use of any toys invoving electiricity due to incorrect use causing serious harm or even death..

Sourced through wikipedia

In less than a week her little sex toy will be on his knees before Her…

To play with his mind a bit and to get him all excited she arrange for a special little treat last night…Mistress Katalina (professional Dominatrix) organised a little surprise with one of the Professional Mistresses in her toys home town…See for the last few weeks he has been telling his Mistress he will never be gagged caged and at the mercy ofa powerful woman… Well last night Mistress Katalina put her plan into full motion to trap her toy…

At 830pm she started to fuck with her pets mind…he was gagged and hands tied tight infront of him while he waited for instructions from the Mistress…At 9pm he was taken..kidnapped  bound gagged and placed in tight bondage…he was taken to a secret little dungeon where he would be humilated and placed at the mercy of women…

My poor little pet had know idea..he walked straight into our trap…and even when he was put on show for all the other Mistresses and then led out of the cage and taken back to the drop of point where he thought he would be set free…well see Mistress Katalina had plans for him and he was not going to be free..he was going to know exactly what this devious wicked Mistress could do..even if in another state…

well my kinky readers if you want more of the story then why not ask me…

Mistress Katalina

Mistress Katalina devised a wicked little trap for her new pet on Friday night…see he was all alone in the house..so Mistress thought about have some fun with her toy…

Before he got in from work Mistress texted her pet with a few instructions of what he was to do as soon as he got home from work…At 7pm he texted Mistress back saying he had obeyed and he was stripped to his tight boxer shorts hands tied with zip ties and gagged and of course was in his little cage…
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THE SENSUAL BALL - WHAT’S ON

WHEN:    Sunday 8th June 2008

WHERE:  An excellent location in the Sydney CBD (Pitt St / Liverpool St area).  650 couples with a  venue layout of 2 separate areas (large dance & stage area, Sensual Room / BDS&M Room and HEAPS of dark cosy corners!) The Venue also boasts video viewing screens so you don’t miss the action on the dance floor or stage 

WHAT TIME:  7.30pm sharp until 3am (please arrive early to get changed and check in)

WHAT’s ON:  Dancing, 4 Erotic Shows, Massage from BODYROTIC , Bondage & Domination fun in the Sensual Room, Body Paint & Tattoos, plus:

A BDS&M Show

A couples show

A pole show

Bodyrotic Lesbian super hot Show

Erotic Dress Competition with $1,000 in cash prizes and Adult Match Maker memberships

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No matter how much you trust your Mistress or Master safe words should always be put in place…In my opinion those that say they do not need safe words are those I do not wish to play with…Also a Mistress or Master should never rely on the submissive to use their safe word as some submissive’s when inexperienced see this as a sign of weakness and displeasing to the Master or Mistress..

As a Professional Dominatrix I have had an experience of this and because of my skills or be able to read the submissive (client) I stopped the scene and told the client that it was irresponsible and down right stupid to hold back with his safe word, .this is how accidents happens. He still did not actually get it…to him he was playing the macho male and thought that would turn me on…believe me it annoys me when people let their egos run wild…there is nothing exciting about a submissive who has gone beyond the point of sexual pain and pleasure and a good Mistress or Master knows these limits…

Ok so you ask how do I use safe words when I am gagged or playing in a noisy environment well of course you cant speak or be heard in this sort of situation so signals are a good way to ensure that you alert your Mistress or Master if things are uncomfortable for you…I cannot stress enough how important safe words they are what ensures a safe and sane session with your Master or Mistress…

You’re abducted by a stranger
Why it appeals to you: The “safe rape” is a very common female fantasy — but it’s such a far cry from the real thing it seems ridiculous to even call it rape. Passionate and forceful, but never violent or painful, the “rapes” in our head differ because we’re always in control, even though we’re being “forced” to submit.

Why he’ll love it too: Being the physical aggressor is taboo for men. Being given a “harmless” outlet to let loose some deeply primitive urges without being punished is appealing.

What you’ll need to act it out: A quiet bedroom and a mirror

The action plan: You’re naked while he’s dressed in street clothes (a dark suit would play up the mysterious stranger element). You’re in your bedroom, admiring your body with your hands and your eyes in a full-length mirror. He sneaks up silently behind you, covers your eyes with his hands and says, “Shhh! I won’t hurt you. But you have to do exactly as I say.” You freeze and pretend to be terrified. You’re not sure what to do, knowing that he’ll overpower you if you try to get away. He waits for you to calm down and for your breathing to become regular again. Meanwhile, you’re conscious of the sensation of your naked skin against the roughness of his clothes — and you’re oddly excited by it.

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he loves a woman in sexy lingerie..or a sexy costume…he weakens at the mention of a latex catsuit and my thigh high boots…see Mistress knows how to tease and torment him and to get his mind racing and under her control..oh no its not just about the sexy clothing its the woman inside the clothing that makes him weak and at her mercy…

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Just a little reminder to all you kinky peeps out there…this weekend is Hellfire’s monthly fetish party..

Saturday 31st May

Tabu Lounge

9pm doors open

so get out the rubber, leather pvc or whatever turns you on and head into the valley for a night of kinky fun….

for more details contact Hellfire

Mistress Katalina has a special home for her new pet…once he is fully trapped in her web she will keep him locked in her cupboard under the stairs which has been cleaned out and fitted with bolts and hooks so she can secure her pet in shackles and chains so he has no escape…

See Mistress has teased her toy with her cupboard and he thinks she is just mind fucking with him and that she will not follow through with it….mmmm see Mistress wants him to think like this as she wants him to underestimate her because once she drags him into that cupboard and shackles his wrists and ankles he will have no choice but to surrender to her fully…
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