Mistress Katalina - Professional Dominatrix

Over the last few months I have come across a few clients who dont understand what you mean when you ask them there limits…some say that they have no limits and that they will take anything a Mistress wishes to give out..well for all those that think or say this a word of warning…make your needs clear to a Dominant otherwise you will find that you will not have the full enjoyment out of a session…also you may be one of those unlucky people who comes across a Mistress or Master who does not really care about your needs (yes there are people out there that abuse the trust of a submissive…)

Mistress Katalina advises all those new and old to the world of BDSM to be clear with what you wish to explore and what you dont..I myself have limits as a Professional Dominatrix and I abide by them no matter how large a tribute I am offered….

Below is an extract from Peter Masters who gives an explanation on limits and the difference between hard and soft ones… 

Soft” limits are limits, to do with your BDSM activities, which are
possibly variable. They might be variable according to your mood, the
partner you’re with, and so on. They might also be limits that you’d
simply like “pushed” a little.

“Hard” limits are those which may not be exceeded. They might be real
physical limits or psychological/emotional limits, but in either case
transgressing them will cause you harm.

Whether you’re a dominant or a submissive it’s very important you
communicate all you know about your limits to your partner. Don’t just
tell them what the limits are; also tell them why you have those limits
so that your partner has the best possibility of understanding.

Make sure also that you talk about limits that you might think you
have but are not sure about because they’ve never been tested.